Women

[Uncle Shags]

Exactly. If I bring the subject up, she owns me. :lol: So I've hesitated until now.
My player friends would say if I bring this subject up then I obviously care about it more than she does and as soon as that becomes clear to her she loses interest and it's game over. I generally don't follow those guidelines but we know it's true.

Yep. This could definitely happen. But, there may be a way to broach the subject so that you don't come off as the "You never want to spend time with me!" guy. I get flashbacks and the shakes just thinking about it...

Maybe tell her you have to take a break (but can still have conjugal visits) because you are at the age where you are looking for something more serious, and she appears to still be in her reckless youth phase. If she really is into you, then she'll put in more effort to keep you. If she doesn't, then there's your answer.

The danger is you may crack under harsh interrogation and admit she's got you whooped. A temporary solution to that is to make sure you have someplace to go right after you give her the talk, so she doesn't have time to put the screws to you.

Or, you could be honest and just say the complete truth. She may be a rad chick, completely agree and decide you are the greatest thing ever. Or she could use that info to crush your soul. But hey, it's only your SOUL!!....